Dr. Butch Losey
Helping couples with:
managing the crisis of infidelity,
deepening intimacy, and
bettering conflict resolution and communication skills
Directory
Blog Post, Articles and Books
by Dr. Losey
Infidelity
Calming the Storm: 10 Things to Do Immediately Following Discovery of an Affair
Helping Your Partner Following Your Affair:
Using Compassionate Response to Manage Triggering Events
A Few Boundaries to Consider Immediately Following Discovery of an Affair
The Potential Dangers in Talking with Friends and Family about your Partner's Affair
Shared Responsibility Does Not Mean Equal Responsibility:
An Approach to Infidelity Treatment
Lying About the Affair: What Men Need to Know About Emotional and Sexual Infidelity
When you Spouse Argues it was not an Affair
Infidelity Treatment and Why it is Different than Couple Therapy (Coming Soon)
Managing the Intrusive Thinking Associated with Your Partner's Affair
Therapeutic Process
Making Couples Counseling Work
Transformative Systemic Change in the Couple Therapy Experience
Teaching Couples Communication Skills is Not Enough: Enactments in Couple Therapy
Trust and Commitment
10 Characteristics of a Trusting Partner
Three Basic Strategies to Strengthen Commitment
Restoring Trust (Coming Soon)
Forgiveness
Forgiveness (Coming Soon)
Communication
The Intentional Use of Silence and Self in Conflict Communication
"Stop it". The Couples Therapist Frustrated Response
Simple Strategies for Managing Criticism (Coming Soon)
Pornography
Pornography is Bad for You and Your Relationship
Books By Dr. Losey
Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity: A Sequential Guide for Therapists and Couples (2021)
Managing in the Aftermath of Infidelity is organized to speak directly to the betraying partner, the betrayed partner, and the therapist independently, offering valuable insights on how each role can assist in making recovery successful. Early chapters direct couples on how to limit potential damage from the fall out of discovery, and subsequent chapters help the couple repair and rebuild a new post-affair relationship. The strategies within this book can be used by the couple alone or as a companion to working with a therapist.
Creating an Effective Couple Therapy Practice (Routledge, 2017)
This book is written for clinicians. Each chapter discusses a common
concern presented in couples therapy and examines the research behind effective clinical intervention. Outcome measures are identified so that the clinician can consider how to help couples assess the changes they have created in their relationship.
Bullying, Suicide and Homicide: Understanding, Assessing and Preventing Threats to Self and Others for Victims of Bullying (Routledge, 2011)
This book is written with school counselors in mind. I discuss the sad experience of a teen who completed suicide due to bullying. I talk about the evidence-based prevention and intervention strategies with bullying and assessment and clinical interventions for suicidal intent and behavior. I also discuss some of the interviews I have conducted with school shooters who are now servicing multiple life sentences and how to conduct threat assessment.
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