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by Dr. Losey

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Infidelity

 

Calming the Storm: 10 Things to Do Immediately Following Discovery of an Affair

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Helping Your Partner Following Your Affair: Using Compassionate Response to Manage Triggering Events

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A Few Boundaries to Consider Immediately Following Discovery of an Affair

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The Potential Dangers in Talking with Friends and Family about your Partner's Affair

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Shared Responsibility Does Not Mean Equal Responsibility: An Approach to Infidelity Treatment

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Lying About the Affair: What Men Need to Know About Emotional and Sexual Infidelity

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When you Spouse Argues it was not an Affair

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Infidelity Treatment and Why it is Different than Couple Therapy (Coming Soon)

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Managing the Intrusive Thinking Associated with Your Partner's Affair

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Therapeutic Process

 

Making Couples Counseling Work

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Transformative Systemic Change in the Couple Therapy Experience

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Teaching Couples Communication Skills is Not Enough: Enactments in Couple Therapy

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Trust and Commitment

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10 Characteristics of a Trusting Partner 

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Three Basic Strategies to Strengthen Commitment

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Restoring Trust (Coming Soon)

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Forgiveness

Forgiveness (Coming Soon)

 

Communication

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The Intentional Use of Silence and Self in Conflict Communication

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"Stop it". The Couples Therapist Frustrated Response and What He Really Means

 

Simple Strategies for Managing Criticism (Coming Soon)

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Pornography

 

Pornography is  Bad for You and Your Relationship

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Pornography: The Third Partner in Your Relationship

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Books by Dr. Losey:

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Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity: A Sequential Guide for Therapists and Couples (2019)

     I am currently writing a book that will be for couples who have just learned about their partner's infidelity. I am interested in including personal experiences and recommendations from people who would like to share their story in hopes that it will help someone else. If you are interested in submitting your thoughts, please click the following link to get the full details: WRITING SUBMISSION

Creating an Effective Couple Therapy Practice (Routledge 2017)

    This book is written for clinicians. Each chapter discusses a common

concern presented in couples therapy and examines the research behind effective clinical intervention. Outcome measures are identified so that the clinician can consider how to help couples assess the changes they have created in their relationship.

Bullying, Suicide and Homicide: Understanding, Assessing and Preventing Threats to Self and Others for Victims of Bullying (Routledge, 2011)

     This book is written with school counselors in mind. I discuss the sad experience of a teen who completed suicide due to bullying. I talk about the evidence-based prevention and intervention strategies with bullying and assessment and clinical interventions for suicidal intent and behavior. I also discuss some of the interviews I have conducted with school shooters who are now servicing multiple life sentences and how to conduct threat assessment.