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The Potential Dangers in Talking with Friends and Family about your Partner's Affair
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity As I write this article, I am aware that I will probably sound like an...
Dr. Butch Losey
Mar 6, 20185 min read


Pornography: The Third Partner in Your Relationship
You have felt for a while now that your partner is less intimate with you, less engaged, maybe a bit more distracted and you wonder if he...
Dr. Butch Losey
Dec 18, 20172 min read


Three Basic Strategies to Strengthen Commitment
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity The simple truth is that every couple gets busy. Personal pursuits,...
Dr. Butch Losey
Dec 9, 20173 min read


Managing the Intrusive Thinking Associated with Your Partner's Affair
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Here are some thoughts about managing intrusive thinking. It is one of the...
Dr. Butch Losey
Nov 10, 20175 min read


10 Characteristics of a Trusting Partner
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Trust is not an end point or a commodity in a relationship. It is a way of...
Dr. Butch Losey
Oct 14, 20173 min read


Lying About the Affair: What Men Need to Know About Emotional and Sexual Infidelity
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity It is not uncommon for couples to come to therapy distinguishing between...
Dr. Butch Losey
Sep 9, 20175 min read


Helping Your Partner Following Your Affair: Using Compassionate Response to Manage Triggering Events
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity As a couple's therapist working with couples recovering from infidelity, I...
Dr. Butch Losey
Sep 3, 20173 min read


Transformative Systemic Change in the Couple Therapy Experience
I just returned from a 10-day intensive residential training program at the Satir Institute of the Pacific in British Columbia, Canada....
Dr. Butch Losey
Aug 10, 20172 min read


A Few Boundaries to Consider Immediately Following Discovery of an Affair
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity In desperate times, people do desperate things. Following the discovery of...
Dr. Butch Losey
Jul 7, 20173 min read


Shared Responsibility Does Not Mean Equal Responsibility: An Approach to Infidelity Treatment
Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Many systemic therapist believe that there is circular reciprocity in...
Dr. Butch Losey
Jun 30, 20172 min read


Porn Effects You and Your Relationship
Last week, I presented a two-day workshop on pornography and sex addiction at Xavier University. The audience was mostly grad students...
Dr. Butch Losey
Jun 25, 20172 min read
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