Recently, I took out an old copy of the well-known book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. The book has the...

Therapists recognize that there is an accepted definition of infidelity. Even so, I routinely hear debates in my office between partners...

Intimate relationships can be a healing place. Moments of tension, stress and conflict in your relationship can actually be times for...

It's a story that I have heard before. In a previous session, a therapist has taught the couple to make "I" statements or some other...

When I think of couples in conflict, I certainly think about how I can help the couple in therapy structure their conversation in...

As I write this article, I am aware that I will probably sound like an alarmist, but I write this as a cautionary prelude to you sharing...

You have felt for a while now that your partner is less intimate with you, less engaged, maybe a bit more distracted and you wonder if he...

The simple truth is that every couple gets busy. Personal pursuits, friends, and career can all threaten the intimacy and erode the...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Here are some thoughts about managing intrusive thinking. It is one of the...

Trust is not an end point or a commodity in a relationship. It is a way of being. Couples in therapy want specific interventions to...

It is not uncommon for couples to come to therapy distinguishing between sexual and emotional infidelity. Sometimes the distinction is...

As a couple's therapist working with couples recovering from infidelity, I regularly encounter situations in which the hurt partner...

I just returned from a 10-day intensive residential training program at the Satir Institute of the Pacific in British Columbia, Canada....

In desperate times, people do desperate things. Following the discovery of an affair, couples do things in an attempt to limit damage,...

Many systemic therapist believe that there is circular reciprocity in relationships. In other words, in the context of the relationship,...

Last week, I presented a two-day workshop on pornography and sex addiction at Xavier University. The audience was mostly grad students...