Dr. Butch Losey

Dr. Butch Losey Emotional intimacy is a deep sense of connection and trust between you and your partner. It involves being able to share...

Dr. Butch Losey Watch Porn to Screw Up Your Brain The changes in the brain due to porn viewing are varied and complex. Changes in reward...

Dr. Butch Losey Discussing difficult topics with your partner can be challenging, but it's an important part of maintaining a healthy and...

Sharing emotional intimacy with someone other than your partner can be considered a form of infidelity. This is because emotional...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity As human beings, we all make mistakes. Sometimes, those mistakes hurt...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity It is bad enough that the affair has rocked your relationship. Now you...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity There is no quick fix to adjusting boundaries in a relationship. When...

Maybe you are sitting in the therapy office week after week and yet you know very little about the personal world of your therapist....

Recently, I took out an old copy of the well-known book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. The book has the...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Therapists recognize that there is an accepted definition of infidelity....

Intimate relationships can be a healing place. Moments of tension, stress and conflict in your relationship can actually be times for...

It's a story that I have heard before. In a previous session, a therapist has taught the couple to make "I" statements or some other...

When I think of couples in conflict, I certainly think about how I can help the couple in therapy structure their conversation in...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity As I write this article, I am aware that I will probably sound like an...

You have felt for a while now that your partner is less intimate with you, less engaged, maybe a bit more distracted and you wonder if he...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity The simple truth is that every couple gets busy. Personal pursuits,...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Here are some thoughts about managing intrusive thinking. It is one of the...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity Trust is not an end point or a commodity in a relationship. It is a way of...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity It is not uncommon for couples to come to therapy distinguishing between...

Dr. Butch Losey Author of Managing the Aftermath of Infidelity As a couple's therapist working with couples recovering from infidelity, I...