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    Change Your Approach to Change Your Partner
    Dr. Butch Losey
    • Dec 27, 2020
    • 3 min

    Change Your Approach to Change Your Partner

    Recently, I took out an old copy of the well-known book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. The book has the promin...
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    Be a "Healing Presence" for Your Partner
    Dr. Butch Losey
    • May 21, 2019
    • 2 min

    Be a "Healing Presence" for Your Partner

    Intimate relationships can be a healing place. Moments of tension, stress and conflict in your relationship can actually be times for hea...
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    "Stop it". The Couples Therapist Frustrated Response and What He/She Really Means
    Dr. Butch Losey
    • Sep 2, 2018
    • 3 min

    "Stop it". The Couples Therapist Frustrated Response and What He/She Really Means

    It's a story that I have heard before. In a previous session, a therapist has taught the couple to make "I" statements or some other comm...
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    The Intentional Use of Silence and Self in Conflict Communication
    Dr. Butch Losey
    • May 18, 2018
    • 3 min

    The Intentional Use of Silence and Self in Conflict Communication

    When I think of couples in conflict, I certainly think about how I can help the couple in therapy structure their conversation in product...
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